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Bud and friend, Nita Burton during Easter morning fellowship 2006 |
Billboard Bud 2006 |
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Bud with friend Cleo McFarland watching balloons launched at Friendship Sunday Sept. 2005 |
Bud with friends from the William Penn Sunday School Class. Bud and Irene were members of the class for many years. |
Richard Anderson
"Bud" Bosworth
April 27, 1918 - November 10, 2007
Richard "Bud" Bosworth and his twin sister
Helen Bosworth were born in Winchester, Indiana, on April 27, 1918,
to Tom and Ruby (Anderson) Bosworth. Bud spent his childhood years
with his sister and their brother Edwin "Tib" Bosworth on the
family's farm along SR 32 between Winchester and Farmland, and they
attended the Lincoln Schools east of their home. Bud graduated from
Lincoln High School in 1937.
After Bud finished high school, his father
helped him get started farming. Bud planted a few acres of tomatoes
and worked hard to have the cleanest, weed-free fields for miles
around. Despite all his effort, his fields yielded fewer tomatoes
than his neighbors got from theirs. The following year, Bud tended
his fields more like everyone else did, and his yield appeared to be
better, but due to his colorblindness, Bud couldn't tell how ripe
the tomatoes were and harvested his crop too early. When his
payment got docked because the tomatoes were too green, Bud decided
it was time to go to town and look for a job. He started out as an
apprentice polisher in 1939 at the Overmyer Mould Company.
About a year later, Bud married his
sweetheart Irene Cox on December 14, 1940, at her parents' home near
Winchester. They first lived in Farmland, then moved for a brief
time to Toledo, OH, where Bud had been offered work. After a few
months, they returned to Farmland where Irene worked as a beautician
and Bud again worked in machine and mould shops around Winchester.
As WWII wore on, Bud enlisted in the US
Navy in March of 1944. He spent several weeks at the Great Lakes
Training Center before being transferred to San Diego, then deployed
as a machinist aboard a ship in the Pacific fleet near Okinawa.
While in the Navy, Bud formed friendships with fellow sailors and
their families that would last the rest of his life, particularly
the Allens and the Bests.
Bud returned to Indiana from the Navy in
1946, just after the stillbirth of his and Irene's first daughter
Connie, and the Bosworths settled again in Farmland. Bud resumed
working at Overmyer Mould Company's machine shop and moonlighted at
McIntyre Furniture Company in Farmland. Their daughter Nicki was
born in May 1948. In 1951, the Bosworths moved to a home in
Winchester. Bud became a mouldmaker at Overmyer in 1959, and
sometime thereafter moved to a job at the Anchor Hocking glass
factory's mould shop. After several years there, Bud finished his
machinist career at Armstrong Mould Company. Over the years, he
also worked part time as needed at Maynard & Walker Funeral Home in
Winchester.
After their 1951 move to Winchester, the
Bosworths began attending Winchester Friends Church, and in October
1955 they transferred their memberships over from Farmland Friends.
Bud and Irene sang in the choir, were active in the William Penn
Sunday School class, and served on many committees through the
years. They told the church in 1999 that they had together
rededicated their lives to Christ while attending a 1979 John Wesley
White evangelistic crusade at Winchester's fieldhouse. Bud was a
trustee for many years and was a repository of knowledge about the
intricacies and idiosyncrasies of the Winchester Friends
meetinghouse and grounds. After his retirement, he and Irene made
it part of their ministry to spend numerous hours mowing and
trimming the lawns and maintaining the building.
Bud was a car enthusiast with special
interest in Model A's and Volkswagens. For many years, he owned a
Model A and was a member of the Model A Restorers Club. He enjoyed
travel and spoke often of his trips with Irene to Texas and Florida
to visit her sisters, and of their post-retirement trip to India to
visit Irene's longtime pen pal there. Bud was also a longtime
member of the Masonic Grand Lodge.
For many of their last years together, Bud
and Irene lived in their well-kept home on CR 100S just south of
Winchester. To lessen the burden of caring for property, they moved
to a duplex apartment in the Summers Pointe retirement community in
2002 or 2003. Not long afterward, Irene's health declined
significantly, and she died on July 3, 2004, after more than 63
years of marriage to Bud. Bud continued as a resident in Summers
Pointe apartments and the assisted living center for the remainder
of his life.
In his final years, Bud was a frequent
patient at Winchester's Saint Vincent Randolph Hospital for
treatment of his chronic congestive heart failure. He was such a
friend and favorite of the nursing staff that SVR invited him to be
photographed with them for a 2006 billboard promoting the hospital's
services. He died at age 89 at SVR Hospital early on the morning of
November 10, 2007, after several days of treatment there for his
chronic cardiac and respiratory problems. He was preceded in death
by his parents, his sister Helen Wolford, his brother Edwin, his
infant daughter Connie in 1946, and his wife Irene in 2004. He is
survived by his daughter Nicki Owens and her husband Rick; by his
granddaughter Angela Longnecker and his grandson Scott Longnecker;
by several nieces and nephews; and by many friends in the community
and in his church family who will miss him deeply.
Message Given at
the Funeral of Bud Bosworth
Winchester Friends Church November 14, 2007
Bud and Irene Bosworth were some of the
first people we got to know very well in Winchester when we moved
here in 1998, mostly because they were always around the
meetinghouse mowing the lawn or fixing something. After finishing
their task, they often invited us to walk down the street to have
coffee at the soda fountain in Haines Drug Store. We soon figured
out that Bud was one of those special, delightful, one-of-a-kind
friends we all learn to treasure.
Who else have we ever known who referred
to at least three-fourths of all his acquaintances as "a dandy"?
(Whenever Bud said that, I always thought I should reply with the
old junior high comeback, "Takes one to know one.") It is unlikely
that we'll ever hear anyone refer to people they're speaking of as
"that jaybird" the way Bud always did, or that we'll ever know
anyone who delighted so much in strange combinations of food the way
Bud did. He seemed to enjoy gravy and baked beans on just about
anything, and he made sandwiches from whatever happened to be in the
refrigerator. The church choir's practices haven't been quite the
same without Bud there to ask the obvious "Is this the song for next
Sunday?" It is unlikely we'll ever know another 89 year-old so
ready for mischief and practical jokes, so lovingly ornery, so ready
for a good laugh even when he felt unwell.
Unless he was very, very ill, Bud even in
a hospital bed nearly always had that sparkle in his eye that told
you he was calculating how to make his visitors laugh. The sparkle
was there when we last saw Bud at the hospital late on the Wednesday
before he died, and his daughter Nicki said she saw it too when she
visited him there on Friday night. That is why we all were so
shocked to learn on Saturday morning that Bud's condition had
deteriorated so rapidly, and that he was gone. After being notified
of Bud's death, and thinking about that "sparkle of life" we always
counted on seeing in his eye, my mind was drawn to the apostle
Paul's words in I Corinthians 15:51-52, that "we will all be changed
-- in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet...."
In speaking with Nicki in preparation for
this occasion, we pondered what it was exactly that produced a
character like Bud. She told me she thought that the most
lifechanging, significant influence on her dad had been the two
years he spent in the US Navy. That experience gave him close,
lifelong friends, enhanced his job skills, and taught him habits of
orderliness and a unique way of seeing nearly everything in life. I
too saw that influence in Bud's life, but I believe that an even
more profound factor in producing the character we knew as Bud was
the long-term transformation of his life resulting from walking with
God, especially since the moment he and Irene made the decision to
rededicate themselves to Christ at a 1979 John Wesley White
crusade. It was a spiritual process of grace and growth that began
"in the twinkling of an eye" and continued right up to the end of
the earthly portion of Bud's life.
Bud was already "a dandy" himself, but in
multiple ways, Christ's work steadily transformed the merely good
into the godly:
1) Through Bud's spiritual life, Christ
enabled friendship to become rich spiritual community. Bud's
relationships with his fellow Christians grew beyond earthly
friendship to investment and stakeholding in their spiritual
wellbeing. He cared deeply for others in the church and was as
close as a brother to his Sunday School class and its card-playing
fellowship group, and to the Friends who faithfully took him to
coffee several times a week. Others no doubt saw that as breakfast;
I believe Bud considered it communion. Bud would usually do
whatever he could to help people; some saw that as citizenship, but
Bud grew to consider it to be ministry.
2) For Bud, mere fun was transformed into
joy, the delight in life that originates in Christ's presence and
love and is not quenched by life's hardships. I never observed
Bud's practical jokes to be harmful, harsh, or at anyone else's
expense. Even when his health was failing, Bud looked for ways to
lighten the atmosphere and get others to laugh. Despite his
profound sorrow over Irene's death, Bud made the conscious decision
to allow joy to resurface in his life and to keep on living vitally
and being his best, mischievous, quick-to-chuckle self.
3) Christ transformed Bud's chivalrous
decency into committed discipleship, something that was especially
seen in his relationship with Irene. Because of her long struggle
with diabetes, Bud had to work extra hard to help her and care for
her. I never heard Bud complain about any of that. To the
contrary, he spoke of his marriage only in the language of
privilege, devotion, and spiritual submission. For Pam, Bud's
sacrificial love for Irene was illustrated by things like his
insistence on pre-warming her towel in the clothes dryer while she
showered. After Irene died, Bud transferred his ministry of
spiritual kindness to others in the assisted living center,
including Irene's sister Louise and his friend Joe Zell's wife Rosa
Mary after Joe had to move to a nursing home.
4) Bud's natural helpfulness and good
works for people and institutions were transformed by Christ into
genuine spiritual acts of service done for God. His extensive
volunteer work as a church trustee, whether mowing or plumbing or
painting, was done for the Lord, not just for people, setting an
example for upcoming generations and thus having eternal impact and
significance beyond merely helping the church to get needed work
done.
5) Christ transformed Bud's human
appreciation into spiritual gratitude and thankfulness. He found a
way to obey Paul's instruction to "be thankful in everything."
During his final hospital stay, Bud was describing one of his meals
for us and went on and on about how tasty the biscuits had been,
even though he acknowledged that they were "as hard as hockey pucks,
so hard they hurt my teeth!" Bud's insistence on describing people
as "dandies" was his way of expressing recognition and gratitude for
God's presence brought into his life through them. As we left his
hospital room that Wednesday evening, the last thing Bud ever said
to us was, "Thank you for coming to see me," spoken so sincerely
that it told us that Bud knew we were there out of love and
ministry, not out of duty.
And then, in the twinkling of an eye on Saturday morning, Bud's transformation into Christlikeness was completed. In that instant, he was changed from a Kingdom traveler sailing through life's storms, into a Kingdom resident in the safe harbor of God's immediate, eternal presence. According to the medical caregivers who were with Bud in that moment of eternal transformation, he was reciting either the Lord's Prayer or the 23rd Psalm, not the Navy Hymn. Bud's two years in the Navy did indeed significantly shape and change his earthly existence, but it was Christ who transformed Bud Bosworth and gave him eternal life.
Ron Ferguson, November 2007
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